So what in the world is the problem with all you people. leaving others in the lurch while you go enjoy yourself. why can't you people just sacrifice some time. you people are not the only ones who have your own commitments. others have it too. but why can't you sacrifice some things like them? So what if you achieved what you wanted? there are more people who deserve what you have now.... i keep this inside because i don't want to hurt friendships between people. But sometime saying it out will help me feel better. after reading this post, don't think that it is you that i am refering to. i am just venting my anger by typing this. i am not blaming anyone. if this post affected you, i m sorry. but i have no intention to hurt anyone.